Daily “how to meet older men” post.
By - BobThrillin
Take a three day Holiday in a city that IS gay and intergenerational friendly
That’s actually awesome advice… thank you! Any suggestions?
Where do you live approximately
Palm Springs- very intergenerationaly friendly!
Can I ask why you like older guys? Like, how old? And do you think they’re just sexier or are you looking for a guy with experience or for financial stability etc? I’m getting older and younger and younger guys are hitting on me and I’m always curious why a dude 20 years younger than me wants anything more than just hot Sex. Thanks.
I was 60 and my partner for the last seven years was 26 when we first met. He could not imagine having sex with someone his age and he’s only interested in men with silver hair broad shoulders a belly. Financial stability has absolutely nothing to do with his life choices. He does look for guidance in life decisions which of course I’m only too willing to help him with. It’s hard to explain but it’s out there.
I'm in my 20's and have been attracted to older guys- 50's and 60's - since I was a teen. It seems older guys always question why a young guy desires them, and that preconception often results in them just ignoring the younger guy. We can't help what attracts each of us to another person.
>I'm in my 20's and have been attracted to older guys- 50's and 60's - since I was a teen. It seems older guys always question why a young guy desires them, and that preconception often results in them just ignoring the younger guy. We can't help what attracts each of us to another person.
*Chefs kiss* perfectly stated my dude.
Yeah I get it. I dated a 50 year old when I was 25 and he attracted me because he was so chill and didn’t try to seduce me, just flirted a little bit and he made me weak in the knees haha
I frequently help mentor young guys to get back on their feet (as a current tutor and former university teacher and education executive). I find that at 60 I feel ready for a relationship now with a younger guy myself. But the local young guys pressure me to instantly move in and be my “househusband.” As far as meeting young guys, and them meeting me, I currently prefer talking at length and getting to know them online first. Distance doesn’t matter to me. But young guys getting instant crushes after one date before I even really know them bothers me. From my perspective, I actually suggest talking to an older guy online for awhile first. It keeps emotions from running away with you.
I actually totally agree with this but sometimes it can be difficult because as you start to get to know someone online, you start to get feelings for them and then you end up getting cat fished lol. But yeah, I have no problem with doing online first
Ouch! That’s happened a few times to me. They are a scammer of only looking for a temporary sugar daddy or money
Yeah exactly. I’ve also had a similar problem to yours, except that for me older guys want me to fly to them to basically just be their booty call.
I have done whatever I can to discourage young guys who suggested they fly over for a weekend with me. Especially after one admitted he was planning for it to be a one-way plane ticket. I am surprised how many young guys are the ones who suggest a weekend bootie can as ll fly-in to me, but can understand how older guys will suggest the same. I am definitely not in favor of it unless we get very serious. It’s nice to know you think like I do.
Yeah it’s one of those things where hours of texting and phone calls are needed. I think if you truly want a relationship with someone you’ve met online you need to know them extremely well first to be sure that it will be worthwhile. Sexual attraction isn’t enough, you have to genuinely like the person
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There's a lot to unpack here; but my suggestion is see if your city has a Facebook group? Local fb groups are popping up often. We have a bears group here.
Feel free to message me as well.
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